We place great emphasis on a child’s transition to school, but what about the parents’ one? Establishing a network of acquaintances and friends within your child’s school will help you to stay informed and feel connected with your child’s experience. Unfortunately, there can be numerous obstacles to making adult connections at school. You may work long hours and rarely attend drop-off or pick-ups yourself. Perhaps you have a hectic schedule that has you rushing between various schools, activities and other appointments. Perhaps you’re toting a tired or hungry baby or impatient toddler (or both!) and need to make a fast exit from the school grounds, every time. It’s also possible you may simply find socialising with other parents just a little awkward or daunting.
For insight into the benefits of growing a network of acquaintances and friends at your child’s school, I spoke to Inner West Mum and school teacher Ally.
‘Kindergarten is a tricky transition for everyone,’ says Ally. ‘As a teacher, I often speak with parents about their children making friends and the ways in which they can assist. What is often overlooked, however, is the parents themselves and the connections they can make to assist with this transition. Parents need to reach out and try to build relationships with other parents who have similar interests so that you can mutually support each other.’
Following is a selection of suggestions (many of which came out of a recent post within the Inner West Mums Facebook group) that may help you to make stronger connections at your child’s school – possibly even close long-term friendships.
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